Hey, My name is Chingla. I'm a teenager and currently dating a beautiful and amazing girl. It's been 2 years and + since we've been dating, Since March 21, 2009. My girlfriend Amanda, and I have been having troubles lately. Every friend or people that knows us says that we could be that couple that lasts through high school and get married someday. We've been in each other's lives for 2 years, and I know that the feeling of love has become like a daily thing. We've gotten used to it basically. We're both juniors in high school, and right now our relationship is on thin ice. She says she feels like she needs to find herself. We've agreed upon a break already, but I'm still scared that we might break up. I don't want to though. But also, she also says she doesn't feel 'that way' anymore. But once I told her, I don't feel the spark either anymore, but it's just cause we've been together for so long that we've gotten use to it that's all, and I know I still love you. She also says she still loves me. Our deadline of this break up is on mother's day. The reason so is because I wanted to see her mom's grave, and promised her i'd take her to see her mom. Please help. I want to keep Amanda in my life. Is there anything I can do?