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Old 10-27-2011, 06:50 AM   #1
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Unhappy I want to re-kindle our love.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 11 months. And we broke up once but got back together again. But since we got back together we havent had that spark that we used to. She always seems upset at me and when she doesnt i..i just dont know. i mean i really do care for her i really do. And im willing to do what it takes to get that spark back. But i just dont know what to do to get it back. Any advice would be great! please and thank you

 
Old 10-27-2011, 07:16 AM   #2
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Re: I want to re-kindle our love.

Why did you two break up? And what do you think would be her side of the story? Do you have any idea of WHY she's always upset? What have you done to make her upset, if anything? What do you think SHE'D say you've done?

The thing is, women do see romance differenty than men, generally speaking. All the flowers and presents and sweet surprises in the world won't melt her heart if you messed up in some way and never properly apologized for it or if you stopped being sorry before she stopped being angry. You can't rekindle a romance with flowers and candlelit dinners if there's an underlying problem that's not being dealt with. And if she's always upset, it sounds like there's an underlying problem that's not being dealt with. So deal with it.

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Old 10-27-2011, 07:22 AM   #3
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Re: I want to re-kindle our love.

I dont know why shes upset maybe she isnt maybe it just seems that way. I mean when i ask her she says shes not and we just countinue on.

She Broke up with me because she was afraid of what she felt towards me that she could get hurt aand she left to see if it was real. And she came back. And since...maybe im just reading her wrong. But sometimes it seems like she doesnt even want me around. I just dont know what to do. And i dont want to lose what we have. Shes special to me very special. I do Love her.

 
Old 10-27-2011, 07:41 AM   #4
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Re: I want to re-kindle our love.

I'm in the same boat kid. if you get a good response, lemme know.

 
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