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Old 02-06-2013, 03:24 AM   #1
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Hi, I am back. I talked about my problems earlier, and they are in the thread "She used to love me". I am going to discuss my new problem in this thread.

I would like to tell that my ex still looks at me.

Not much, but in the last two days I caught her looking at me, around three or four times each day. I am shy and I look away, but i know this much that her gaze is cold and stony, not with any emotions. I don't know her feelings, and we haven't talked for around 4 MONTHS by now.I still love her, but I don't know her part. What should I do ?

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Old 02-06-2013, 08:41 AM   #2
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Re: New problem

I'm sorry but I think I'm having trouble understanding exactly what's going on. Being I'm from the US and you're from a totally different country with totally different customs unique to your country, I think I'm just missing things. Would you be able to better describe what's going on versus what is typical of your country. Am I explaining myself very well? I do hope someone will be able to give you some suggestions.

 
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Old 02-06-2013, 09:39 AM   #3
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Re: New problem

You said its been 4 months but you only just posted about this for the first time at the end of December and now it's only February so it hasn't even been 2 whole months yet.

My advice is the same as it was in December. She has clearly moved on and doesn't want to talk to you. There is nothing you can do about that. At your age, people change partners as often as they change clothes so it's not that big of a deal. Its time for you to stop thinking about her and why she is doing whatever she is doing because it has nothing to do with you. You should be getting involved in school activities and having fun with your friends. There will be plenty of time for you to be sad about girls later but right now focus on yourself and your friends and avoid her or if you see her in the halls at school, don't treat her any differently than all the other tons of kids that walk by you in the hall every day.

 
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Old 02-07-2013, 01:03 AM   #4
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I posted in December, that's right, but did I ever tell that I HAD A TALK WITH HER? We broke up in October, and haven't talked since then.

 
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Re: New problem

Since she is looking at you again, why don't you try smiling and trying to say hi to her?

 
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