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Old 07-07-2003, 10:56 PM   #1
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Hi All:

I haven't been on the boards much lately as I've been feeling so down. Guess today it just seems to have all piled up on me and I feel like I am at the end of my rope.

Late last week I had a call from the woman handling my claim for long term disability benefits, as I've been off work for several months due to all this bad stuff. I don't know if the insurance company will approve my claim and they're moving slowly processing it. The questions she asked me all sounded like "outs" for the insurance company not to pay anything, depending on how I answered. What happened to good old honest decency? Yes, I know, insurance company and decency don't go hand in hand.

Today, the HR woman from work who's been handling things called. She calls once or twice a month, even though my doctor submits forms when required and all the information she needs is there. She's nosey and anything I'd say would end up as gossip circulated in my dept. Her calls are always like a form of harrassment. Today I felt particularly bad and my teeth and gums were hurting alot, so I didn't even try to make conversation, just said "hmmm" a lot. She seemed to get the idea and didn't keep me on the line as I wasn't contributing to the conversation. I don't like to be rude, but what's wrong with people? I'm doing the best I can to find myself help and try to get better. She usually gives me mild putdowns. Last conversation, she told me she had someone else who'd been on leave with TMJD but they managed to get back to work quickly. When I asked who they saw, she moved on to the next thing.

I've lived through a horrible weekend with the neighbours and their noise. The vibrations through the wall are making me crazy. Tonight I went down to the basement to read the paper and have a snack. It was freezing down there, but I had peace and quiet momentarily. It's like I don't know which room to go to that doesn't have noise, so I've just been walking from one room to the next. The vibrations seem to get right into my body and it almost feels like pins and needles. It also feels like my head's gonna explode. Of course, no one here understands the whole TMJD situation anyway, so I don't bother to explain the noise problem except to say it bothers me. The music isn't loud enough to call the cops or do anything about. It's like a low level vibration, and I sit and watch the water in my cup vibrate. This can't be good for my body. I can't get a moment's peace. I went to sit out back, but it started to rain, so that was that. I've taken half a relaxant tonight so that should knock me out in the case the vibrations are still going when I go to bed.

I spoke to neuro #1's office last week and asked the "treatment coordinator" if she could submit a predetermination to my insurance company (they charge $4,000 for splint, adjustments, and the initial testing/measurement appt; plus $275 for the full exam, x-rays, impressions appt). Today I received the results from the insurance company. The dentist's office only submitted the $275 charge. I called to see why the whole amount wasn't submitted as discussed. She said she submitted what the dentist gave her, that she planned to submit the rest when the dentist gave it to her this week, that she thought I was concerned about the $275 charge. What?! I told her I need to know what the insurance will cover, and that I was much concerned about the $4,000 charge as the $275 is a more manageable amount. I don't know if you recall, but this was the office that couldn't tell me what my consult would cost, and when I pushed, I was told it will be under $100 (it was $30). It looks like my insurance will cover the $275, so they're obviously not charging above what the current dental rates are. But something's odd here. After my consult appt, I asked what the exam appt would cost and was told she didn't know and would have to call me (which she did). This doesn't give me a good feeling, and I wasn't 100% about this office anyway (although I don't appear to have much to choose from).

My parents are expecting to spend several days in Cleveland next week, and I'm almost tempted to call Cheryl's dentist, see if he can fit me in for exam/testing, etc. and get things underway. Of course, then I'd have to go to Cleveland for adjustments. I'm feeling very desperate and down today. It seems neverending. I emailed Dr. Cooper (N.Y.) to see if he could suggest anyone. He very kindly wrote back but the two he suggested, I've already seen. His other suggestion is the next province over (very far). It also doesn't look like neuro #3's office is making any effort to get me in earlier. It will be a month from my consult to my first visit. I've told them what kind of shape I'm in, maybe they just don't care.

And like everyone else, I'm worried about the financial end of things. Plus my car insurance is due this month, my car needs work so I haven't been driving it. And on and on. Sorry to gripe so much but it just seems to have all piled up and seems like too much. And it upsets me that I started out with great gums and teeth and I'm worried that by the time someone treats me, my gums will be shot.

I hope everyone else is having a much better day than I am (I'd hate to think someone's having a worse one).

Arleen
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Hi Arleen

***BIGhug***

i can't even begin to discect your post! between a harrassing woman, an ignoramous for a secretary, and neighbours from hell, i'd have lost it long ago! you've got nerves of steel my friend!

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Hi Anastasia & Cheryl:
Thanks for your support. Anastasia - thank you for the big hug. I really needed that. I'm just having a few bad days. It seems everything always comes at once and then it just becomes too much to handle. I think the noise factor makes things so much worse. Usually if I'm feeling down, I'll go into my room, sit at my comfy desk, watch some mindless TV and do some stitching. Well, the vibrations in my room make it so unpleasant to do that. Sometimes, too, the den (where this computer is) has vibrations too. So do several other rooms, so it's hard to find a spot where there is silence. Plus when my parents are around, they have the TVs going LOUD. I ask them to turn them down, but they think I'm making a big fuss and don't turn them down nearly enough. Only someone with TMJD understands this.

Cheryl, I noticed you haven't been around much. I was hoping that you were okay, but apart from a few posts over the weekend, I didn't feel much like writing. I'm glad you're okay and it's company that's keeping you away. How's Mike doing? I read about increasing his chiro etc. again. You guys must be counting down the days. I hope after all this wait that the splint works miracles. Maybe, like Diane, he'll put the splint in and get relief almost immediately. That would be great. And how's Mr. Cheryl? (sounds like a hairdresser - I'll have a bit off the back please, Mr. Cheryl. I'm sure your husband is man enough to handle me calling him that

My parents like going to Cleveland. I haven't told them yet it's skunk country. They've been a number of times and have never mentioned any animal encounters. Interesting about having one dentist make the splint and another do adjustments. That's fine as long as both dentists are great at it. We know how hard finding a good dentist is. As far as I know $4,275 is the total amount. It concerns me that they can never give me fees when I ask. Also, I don't understand why the complete predetermination wasn't sent in like we discussed. She made it sound like I was concerned about the $275 (as opposed to the $4,000). That makes no sense, so I don't get what the problem is. This was the first neuro I saw (LVI grad). He seemed okay, lacked personality, maybe cold. His office staff seemed cold or disinterested or something. I got some vibe from the appt but can't put my finger on what is bothering me. Also, I've seen so many dentists and just about every one has made an effort to get me in early because of my situation. Here they've got me waiting a month, and don't seem too concerned about it. But I guess I've got no other choices right now.

I would really appreciate it if you'd ask your husband about what to put on the walls for noise. How does he know it works? One person I spoke to said nothing works, especially for vibrations and bass. I hope that's not true. I was thinking of trying thick cork tiles (like peel and stick), although someone also told me those don't work. Also, would vibrations come through them. I really do sit at my desk and watch the water in my cup or bottle swirling around. Usually I can't hear the music/vocals, but I hear humming, revving, etc. I thought I'd go insane tonight.

Anway, thank you both for your support and encouragement. Take care,
Arleen
p.s. how's the sweet husky doggie today?
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((hugs)) Arleen,

My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry that you are having a bad time. It will get better Arleen.

God Bless You!
Navy

 
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