Hi Tia
Welcome to the board!
I have bumped up some previous topcis about surgery for you to read.
I have not had surgery, so I am not experienced nor knowledgable enough. There are many here who can discuss surgery though.
The one thing I do know about surgery on the TMJ's is that they are typically not successful and only cause further pain and problems. There was a post, that I will try and find about an article written all the way back in 1958 in the American medical journal, that surgery on the joints should not take place until there has been trauma to the joint/joints, ie car accident, etc etc.
I wish you luck, there are lots of wonderful people on this board that can help you better with your questions. Just Ask, Ask, Ask. Ask the surgeon to speak with a minimum of 6 patients, successful and not successful, AND for those that are POST surgery by at least 6 years.
Take care
Diane TMJ