I'm still tense, been this way for over 2 years now

I still have that awful sensation that my ET is blocked, can't pop my ears, have deep inner ear pain. Has anyone had this figured out by their DDS or MD. I saw an ENT, an unsympathetic one who told me they are a surgical clinic and there is nothing wrong with me. I have a conservative dentist, gave up on him, he thought giving me a RX for 20 flexerill was bigtime