papergoods,
If you are set on having surgery, then I agree that it's CRUCIAL to find the best surgeon possible, one who is highly experienced in the type of procedure you want to have. Do you have any idea which procedure you're leaning toward? (arthroscopic, disc suturing, etc). I don't mean to get you down, but I've heard that the discs sometimes slip again after the disc suturing. of course, those are the stories I've heard on these boards...don't know if other people have had success. I would just be VERY careful in doing my research about what type of procedure to have. As far as the Mitek anchors...I am personally against those, but I know Navymid on here did have success with them. It's just that I haven't heard of anyone else who has. Again, that choice is yours and a lot of research/thought needs to go into it!
All of that being said, I would try to find an HONEST surgeon...and maybe one who doesn't have a huge ego LOL. I've had many surgeries in my life (not on the TMJ, but my leg & hip...very complicated and rare surgeries). Anyway, the one thing I can tell you is that you want someone who does not have a massive ego...someone who doesn't immediately assume they can fix EVERYONE'S problem!!! That's all I mean by the whole ego issue. This is important...because you want a surgeon who will tell you straight up whether they think any type of surgery will help you. Someone who is doing it because they are truly looking at YOU as an individual patient, and believe this particular surgery has a good chance of helping YOU. Unfortunately, I've heard of TMJ surgeons (I don't want to mention names) who are known to be skilled at the surgical process itself...BUT they recommend too many surgeries, and often recommend the same surgery for most of their patients. Even several conservative TMJ specialists have told me this is the case..."Oh, Dr. so-and-so is good at his surgical technique, but often does unnecessary procedures and recommends the same one for most of his patients."
I also think raylp has posted a lot of good advice on these boards, about how to find a quality surgeon. I would go back and re-read his posts, and really take his advice into consideration. Please let us know what you decide!
take care,
Meg