Hi, everyone. I am just wondering a few things about sex. I am young, married, and was a virgin when I got married. I just got married a couple of weeks ago, and we've only had intercourse about 12 times. It still hurts everytime (but only upon penetration now, usually, it seems).... and it is starting to feel kind of good. We want a family right away, and would like to get pregnant, but the thing is....Everytime we have sex, after he pulls out, I put my hand down to my vagina and crack, and there is gobs (seems like all of it) of his semen there. It is not on the inside of my body, to be fertalized, but on the outside. I don't know if the problem is that I am too tight, and my muscles are sucking the semen out of my body...? Or what...? He only lasts around 2 mins. each time. (We were both virgins.) We also have to use lube in order for him to penetrate me. It hurts too much if not, even if I am very wet. The lube has to be put on his penis. I really want a child right away, but I don't see how with all of his semen coming out of my body after sex! He keeps his penis inside me for like 1 min. after he is done ejaculating, and I don't go to the bathroom or get up for like 10 mins. afterwards. Also, we have only done missionary position. Please give me some advice! Thank you all so much! I really want a child!!