hey both of ya and thanks for the reply.
I sat him down last night and talked about it,he admits not thinking about it when we had unprotected and told him it hurt me as I was thinking he was ready for children..etc etc
He then said that we could take it as it comes, and now doesnt want to plan for a child. This is comming from a man that likes to make very informed- calculated descions..so who knows.
He says it will happen when its meant to happen..but before his mind frame was..." got to wait longer"