Just Venting - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

Noel's girl · 04-15-2005, 06:51 PM

Hey again everyone. I just wanted to vent, so thats what I will do. I am getting so frustrated lately. I have six friends or people I know that are pregnant now. And I know I should not be jealous of everyones blessings but it is hard to see everyone being pregnant and me just idely sitting by twiddiling my thumbs not even being able to do the bd until June 2. I have been having a bad couple of days lately knowing that all of these people are pregnant and I had that, and got it taken away so abruptly.

I can not wait to be able to start trying again I am so anxious to get pregnant. And then it seems that everywhere I turn everything or everyone is talking about babys. AAAHHH!!! I just want to scream, I know I am just rambiling but I know you all know how I feel to some degree or another.

nastabasta · 04-15-2005, 10:29 PM

hi noels girl,
i wanted to post and let you know that you are not alone in your frustration.
lots of us feel your sadness and share in your frustration. i've been ttc for 7 months. i know that isn't nearly as long as some of the women here but it's still painful. i'm 24 years old and in great health and yet i've been diagnosed with pcos. it's going to be that much harder for me to get pregnant and hold to on the pregnancy (because up to 45% of us pcos ladies miscarry).
it's very painful and hard to deal with at times. i'v spent a lot of time crying over this.
i want you to know that i will be praying for you. i hope that you will be blessed with a child very soon.
and always feel free to vent here. that's why we are all here

best wishes and lots of baby dust.

sammieP · 04-16-2005, 08:39 AM

I know exaxtly where you are coming from, my friend is pg and although shes not shoving it in my face all the time its still irritating when she says things like 'we were just lucky' and 'your time will come', well i know my time will come but when!

All i can say is keep venting, ill be here to join in