Needing to Vent - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

tglenn · 07-05-2005, 10:25 AM

Ok, so af has arrived, and she actually did it a day early and cut down on my waiting...I really thought that June was our month, all of the feelings I was having I had never felt before and I really thought we had did it but I guess it was all in my head and my body was playing tricks on me. It gets so frustrating...the wanting, the waiting and the disappointment of af. Then to top it off it seems like everyone I know who isn't planning on ttc and isn't in the best of situations are getting pregnant! Why does it work this way? The one girl's situation really upsets me b/c she and her so called bf are both drug addict's and don't take care of themselves, he has been in and out of jail and its a matter of time before she is there herself

...I don't get how and why they get to be blessed with a baby...I just pray that the baby can be born healthy

! On the brighter side I am not giving up and the more the we ttc the more relaxed I become, dh and I are going on a vacation in two weeks for a week at the beach in mexico, so maybe we'll be blessed with a beach baby!

I am sorry to sound so...I don't know the word but you all know what I mean, thanks for listening and letting me vent,
***BABY DUST TO ALL OF YOU!***

geminilady · 07-05-2005, 02:29 PM

and......VENT OFF. Breathe. I hate waiting, and I hate "symptoms" that aren't. It will happen. Try to relax, which is easier said than done. My DS (who is 2 1/2) was the first month I "gave up" letting go of the stress REALLY helps.

MJCota · 07-05-2005, 02:41 PM

I agree with you and the frustration! My husband and I have been trying for over 6 months and nothing yet. I found out last month my sister is pregnant and she didn't even try

She just got married June 4th and was about two weeks pregnant and didn't know it. I'm still mad at her lol.

Lots of Beach Baby Dust

weepyone · 07-05-2005, 04:54 PM

Hi tglenn
I am also on vacation in 2 weeks but will be due on af then, hope you do get abeach baby maybe we will both have good outcomes from the sun sea ans sand.

tropbelle28 · 07-06-2005, 02:33 AM

Someone at work has just found out she is pregnant even though her and b/f are using condoms! How unjust is that? She and he don't want to be pregnant and they are using contraception and they get pregnant whereas I would love more than anything to get pregnant, think we are doing everything right and still nothing :O( Why is this? Anyhow, I'm a bit upset at the mo, incase you didn't notice!!!! But trying to chill and relax and have fun.

Good luck and baby dust sprinklings to you and your beach boy!

Claire