Just looking for some helpers again. - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

Shortyshs1 · 07-06-2005, 02:32 PM

hi everybody well its me again.
ive been worrying my self sick about the end of this month... ( i should start my period and im hoping i dont) Y IS IT WHEN U TRY IT DONT HAPPEN AND WHEN U DONT TRY U BECOME PREGNANT FIRST TRY ahhh im thinking its the stress but ive been stressed lately.... about u know ( omg please let this happen) just wondering if ne one else feels like the odds are against them... i for one think its gonna take years. but my boyfriend thinks that its gonna happen first time.. IM SUCH A WORRIED WART! i just want this to happen for us and idk if it will im so worried about everything.....

I WANT TO BECOME PREGNANT i even... pray but this is are first month trying... i heard that most are pregnant by the 3rd month.. but i dont want to wait... !!!!! i want my baby NOW but i guess as long as its healthy ill be fine just wondering if ne one else feels like everybody else is getting pregnant and your.. not and the odds are against you.

tglenn · 07-06-2005, 02:48 PM

The first month and every other month to follow of trying is always nerve wracking b/c you know your "trying!" and I'm not going to lie if it doesn't happen for you, (I hope it does but if it doesn't) it is really upsetting! You just need to remember the facts and do your best to have fun with it and enjoy trying! It can take a healthy couple an average of 1 year to conceive with a 25-35% success rate in the first month but 85% success rate by the end of the first year. I know its hard and overwhelming not to think about it but do your best to relax! We're all here for you and in the same boat...wishing you the best!

weepyone · 07-06-2005, 04:55 PM

The first month when you are ready is hard waiting, i got pg the first month i tried but m/c at 6 weeks i am now trying again it is the first month ofttc again and i too hope i get caught as quick as last time. although as long as i don't m/c and have a healthy baby i would wait forever if necessary. good luck to you lets hope you are one of the lucky ones, it can't all be doom and gloom. baby dust for this month

Shortyshs1 · 07-06-2005, 06:18 PM

aww weepy sorry to hear bout your m/c i just hope when i do become pg. it is healthy.

weepyone · 07-07-2005, 01:49 AM

i am sure everything will be fine for you. lets hope your wish comes true this month