need to moan.... again - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

layla= · 08-30-2005, 09:58 AM

hi ya everyone

hope you've all had a good month,
Its been a mad few months for me, af has developed a mind of her own and i have had cycles of 32 days, then 38 days then 29 days and now 20 days, WHATS GOING ON

I had it all sorted so i knew my ovulation days, and now i dont even know when af is SOMEONE EXPLAIN!!!!!!
It cant be stress i have had a nice 2 weeks hol, and day trips to the beach, and i finally feel relaxed about this ttc (after nearly 2 years)

Oh dear, i know that now i am very very frustrated and tempted to do hpt but im not going to i think ill just tell you lot instead, dh is really confused about it all, i dont think he expected to learn so much about womens biology bless him and all i can say to him is I DONT KNOW!!!!
I was offered fertility treatment by my gp but at 24 and with one child already i think i should try at least another year before muddling with mother nature ( my cousin got impatient and went on fertility and now she cant stop getting pregnant she is now due to drop her 8th or 9th, she got so many i lost count now!!!!)

AHH feel a bit better now
thanx people
I hope you all have a great month
Layla

tglenn · 08-30-2005, 07:29 PM

Layla,
I'm sorry to hear that your cycles are being so unpredictable, that has to be confusing! The only thing I can think of is the change in your daily routine may have caused confusion in you body and caused you to have af early, since you've been on a 2 week holiday.... a few years ago I had a pretty routine schedule and took a 3 week holiday and it really messed my cycle up and I was even on the pill at the time. I'm not sure that's your case but more of a suggestion as to what might be happening. Are you sure it's af, I mean is it heavy or could it be implantation bleeding by chance. Well I hope you get this sorted out so that you can add to your family soon! Best wishes and baby dust!
Tiffany

layla= · 09-01-2005, 07:13 AM

hi ya

Thanks tiffany, i don't want to think of it as implantation bleeding because the last few months i been thinking that i am coz of the lateness, i am at a point where i wont believe it til i really do see it and am more than happy to believe its because of a change of lifestyle, isn't it funny how you forget the simplest of things when your wanting a baby!
Although all that said af only stayed 2 days, normally its 3 but for the last few months has been up to 5, if it was implantation bleeding when would be the best time to test, i dont want to but i think waiting another month will drive me crazy, especially as i have a terrible headache since yesterday which really wont shift, and if you lot are like me then its very easy to get your hopes up over nothing!!!
Anyway good luck to you all
baby dust and best wishes to all