3dpo and wanting to give it all up! - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

sammieP · 03-06-2006, 03:12 PM

According to my temps and the rise i ovulated 3 days ago.

Today has been a real hard day for me, i have gained 3lbs (not a lot but i am 1.4st heavier than i was 2years ago) my slimming world advisor said i have to pull my finger out or give up, i decided to give up and do it on my own at home.

The little old man i look after rang me 1hr after i got in from work and wanted me to go round and see his dog as she was sick, i had just done a 12hr shift mopping up dog pee etc and he thinks i have time for him, my husband seems to think that i have no time for him but in reality i have no time for me let alone anyone else (selfish i know), we are in the process of moving house and so i have to pack everything and clean everything, i have 1 full time job and 2/3 part time jobs, we have been TTC now for 2 years and i feel its time to let things go, to give up and admit defeat

I am tired, grumpy, emotional, i want to sleep, id like a baby but i dont see that i have any time.Good luck to you all and one day i may even be here again informing you of a bfp but for now i have had enough, i can no longer struggle

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This is really to say goodbye to all those people who helped me and supported me, may you all get those bfp you deserve, i will endevour to give you all support but for me the battle is lost, fertility clinic for the last time in April i will keep you all updated.

Thanx for letting me vent

Goodbye my TTC friends and i do hope your lives are filled with the sounds of tiny feet soon

coldrain · 03-06-2006, 06:39 PM

Oh, Sammie, don't give up! You are very strong, stronger than you know. There's always hope. On other hand, life is so full of irony that I won't be surprised if you decided to give up and would get pregnant all of a sudden! Whatever you decide I wish you the best of luck!!!!! And loads of baby dust!

Hugs and warm thoughts, ColdRain

teacherintexas · 03-06-2006, 08:41 PM

You'll be pregnant in less than three months! It always seems to happen that way. Best wishes, and I hope you get some calm days coming your way!

CRR0908 · 03-06-2006, 11:29 PM

Sammie-I have to agree with the other ladies. You're a strong person and always have great advice and support for all of us. I bet you'll be pregnant in no time.

bronicagirl · 03-07-2006, 07:33 AM

Oh Sammie,(((hugs)))
Im so sorry you feel like this, i felt like it several times, last time being after my 4th m/c.
Why not take a day or two break from charting, and see how you feel. Or maybe a month or two break. Please dont give up entirely, you have come so far, i remember when you werent ovulating at all and look at you now.
You will get a bfp one day in sure (((hugs)))

I really was ready to chuck it all in last time, but i 'gave it one last go', and now im 9w 5d, with betas suggesting possable twins. If it happened to me then im sure it will happen to you as well.

Anyway if you do decide to give up then i fully understand why, and like the others said you might then get a suprise bfp anyhow.
Some of my internet friends got bfp when on a 2 month charting/trying break.

Goodluck honey,
love and hugs from Debs x