hi there again guys. thank you so much for your replies. you don't know how much i appreciate your comments.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss babyangel2. i know how it feels i've been there. i've been there and that has got to be the worst thing i have ever felt in my whole life. the last one was a little easier physically than the first, but no easier on my heart. at least i got bradley's hat and blanket and ultrasounds to remember him by, but it is still hard. some days i still curl up with his blanket and cry and its been two years.anyway, my chart looks about the same as the other ones that are on that website. my temps start out about 98.4 then they go up to 99.5- 99.6 right after ovulation, then down again to 98.1 and back up the past two days they have been 99.05 and today they were 98.95. So I don't know. I guess the only way i will know is to wait and take the test.
I guess you guys are right though a happy surprise is better than a huge let down. Thanks for everything. if you have any more thoughts let me know.