Anyone else loosing faith ?? - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

whatishappening · 08-09-2006, 09:24 PM

Hi girls. Just needing to vent here. Wow, when dh and i decided to try for a baby in Jan. i was so excited ! Ok, nothing yet and it is Aug. already

I used to think about it all the time and look for changes in my body and stuff like that. I guess i am just tired of being disapointed every time... Anyone else feeling the blues ???

haileysheets · 08-09-2006, 09:53 PM

I get bummed, but I only let myself stay that way for a few hours. Then, I force myself to move on. I refuse to lose faith. I am a big believer in positive thinking. As cheesy as it sounds, I truly think that the month it happens for me will be the month I allowed myself not to worry...had no stress about it...and just reeeeeelaxed. Up until the last week, I worried myself sick during my 2ww thinking things like, "Is it going to happen?" "What if something is wrong with me?" "What if DH has a low sperm count?" Etc. I worked myself up so much. I've realized that TTC is not worth that. It should be a happy time...not one filled with anxieties and depression. Once I go past my 1-year mark of trying, I feel like I'll have a reason to be concerned...but, as for right now, I'm just going to relax, stay positive, and pray for that BFP. I am sure it will happen for you. Don't give up hope!!!

whatishappening · 08-09-2006, 10:10 PM

Thanks Hailey ! That's a great way of thinking. I know next month ( if nothing happens by then) we are going to the dr. to check out sperm count and make sure all my inside stuff is working properly. Best of luck to you too !!

Thanks for the

Star222 · 08-10-2006, 09:02 AM

whatishappening...i started TTC Feb. I couldn't be as patient as you or hailey.
I had my ultrasound on CD12 and CD17...and today(CD27) i had my blood drawn. Don't think i've ovulated this cycle even after the clomid. My gynae also ordered semen analysis for DH and a HSG on my CD8 next cycle. Surprising...but according to him he doesn't want to waste time but to run all the tests coz certain tests are best conducted on a specific cycle day.
I was loosing faith too..but all these tests have given me new hopes.
Good luck to you...

Moldovandish · 08-10-2006, 11:30 AM

yep, it does get frustrating... we started in March and are still going

I also just got my HSG done, my blood test and hubby's SA this month.. They all seem to be pretty normal, so I guess we'll keep trying some more