How are your husbands???? - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

MindyandJoey · 08-10-2006, 11:12 PM

Okay, so obviously this board is all about us TTC, which we have been and are so totally getting anxious and desperate, but how does everyones husbands feel? Me, myself: my husband is just always thinking about it, sometimes more than me. I feel like he gets more sad than I do!!! I just didnt know if everyones husbands get into this baby making as much as mine does!!

aliciaheart04 · 08-10-2006, 11:31 PM

Hello Mindy,

I think that your husband wanting a baby is amazing!! It shows that he is really ready for a child and if he gets sad that shows how excited he will be when you actually get pregnant. It is wonderful. My Husband is a little different. He refuses to get excited when I am a couple of days late because in the past when he did get excited it always ended bad. So now he says that when I actually get pregnant then he will be beyond excited. He has told me that he gets upset but doesn't show it because every month it is so hard on me and he really wants to be there for me. So that is just my personal experience I thought I would let you know. How long have you been ttc???

LittleRed00 · 08-11-2006, 03:00 AM

My husband does pretty good. I don't know. Most times he just doesn't want to talk about it, because he hates getting his hopes up. Occassionally, he'll let me ramble about it nonstop..especially if I know I've O'd.

But, he'd rather me just tell him the days we BD, tell him the results of the pg test and get on with it. I think secretly he isn't very fond of having to BD on a schedule. My brother in law is actually more excited than the DH. He called tonight just to ask.." Are you pregnant?" He's all worried about it, feels like he NEEDS to know right away. It's pretty cute, he's ready to be an uncle for the first time.

Red

Vtthomas · 08-11-2006, 09:56 AM

mine cannot wait...he's like this--->

even if I have a headache he is totally convinced I'm pregnant and practically throws a party

whatishappening · 08-11-2006, 02:03 PM

Geez, mine is very casual about it. He senses when i am sad and he is very positive and sweet about it ! He is even cutting way down on smoking which may contribute to our infertility. Who knows