TTC again - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

Sweet73 · 09-17-2006, 09:59 PM

Hi ladies ...
I'm just posting because I've been on the TTC boards the past month as more of a voyeur.. but this month DH & are going to start TTC again & I am really excited about it!!! I am so glad to have you girls to chat with during this time... we are not telling anyone we have decided to start again, so it's great to have cyber friends to talk to about, well all of it! I got my AF today, so we have a long way to go, but this month we are officially trying again

(for anyone who is not familiar with my posts, DH & I had a m/c in July at 8 weeks). I am equally happy as I am scared about starting over again.

*Baby Dust to all of us!*

-Sweet

eurokelly · 09-18-2006, 04:09 AM

Hi Sweet - it is exciting!! Even (or maybe especially) after the trauma of m/c it feels really good to be TTC again.....baby dust in bag fulls to you!!

I am CD14, no sign of + on the OPK yet but on my old cycle would usually be + OPK on CD17 so maybe, unbelievably, nothing has changed even after all my poor body has been through this year

DH will be worn out over next 7 days though!!! I am not being unrealistic, I know the chances of being pg in the 1st month back are low (especially since I don't even know whether it is the 'right' month as I only have 1 fallopian tube left) but i don't care - I am staying 100% POSITIVE!

Don't you just get to the point where you think "nothing you can throw at me will hurt me anymore, let alone a little old AF"? Thats how I am feeling, vastly optimistic, knowing I will survive the outcome anyway.

so good luck, lets keep posting!! xx

Sweet73 · 09-18-2006, 09:14 AM

Hi Kelly... I love your positive attitude!! I know how important that is.. so I am going to do my best not to "what if" myself all month. The first time we were ttc, we stressed about that, once we got our BFP I thought we were home free... then came the m/c, so it's a whole new venture now.
Wishing you loads of Baby Dust.. and a fun week ahead!

-Sweet

eurokelly · 09-18-2006, 09:53 AM

Hi Sweet, isn't it sad really that we will never be able to experience that pure excitement again, we are bound to be caught between happiness and sheer panic even when we get the BFP! But I honestly believe I am going to love my babies all the more for it once I am blessed with them, and remember all the time ..... the stats are still on our side, most people do go on to have normal healthy pregnancies, so why not us hey?

On another note DH is already moaning about the "schedule" i have planned for the week!! It may not be romantic and spontaneous.....but who knew men would moan about "too much"????? TTC teaches you all kinds of new things about your partner I guess......

Good to know, as always, that I am not alone xxx thanks all xxx