Thank you for your reply Golden, and for explaining things a bit more clearly for me.
ive decided against the fertility monitor as it is expensive, think i will just stick with OPK's.
Glad to hear you got a diagnosis, even though it might not be the one you want. But like you said you are a step closer to reaching your dream now. And i really hope it happens soon for you.
I know im very impatient and often get a bit obsessive about the whole TTC thing, but ever since i was really young ive had this awful feeling that i would be infertile, and it would break my heart if i wasnt able to have children. So sometimes i get really paranoid thinking it will never happen. Id only been TTC for 4 months when i went to my doctor the first time, and he started running the 21 day progesterone tests which showed i wasnt ovulating (or at least, was ovulating late so the tests weren't catching it). My doctor then suggested me trying for another 4 months and if i had no luck going onto Clomid, as i think he presumed annovulation was the problem. I actually split from my BF for about 3 months not long after this. so TTC got put on hold. And before that he had been working away anyway so BD wasnt very well timed. Its only been the past two months since charting and using OPK's that i have actually been tracking my cycles properly and timing intercourse. And i know that two months is nothing.
I will see what results the 21 day progesterone has tomorrow, if im still not ovulating i will suggest femara to my doctor like you said.I guess if that doesnt work i will be referred for other tests.
I know how much we are all going through on here, im just glad we can support each other, i would be lost without this board