I was just wondering and needed a little vent-time. Do any of your families know you are TTC? My DH and I have been trying for a year and a half or more, most of our close relatives know because it's become a topic of conversation at several family events.
Except, we've never went into too much detail, the inlaws know that I've taken Clomid and my parents, but we didn't want the extended family to know. Over Christmas and the Holidays, the in-laws felt it very neccessary to bring up the TTC, and a few distance relatives were asking " When ya having a little one?" So, the inlaws went in depth! They basically spilled my entire health history related to ttc!
I was humiliated!
The in-laws also make little remarks like " Do you need someone to teach you how to BD since you guys don't seem to be getting it right?" And I KNOW they are only kidding or trying to make light of the situation, but for me it's not a situation to be joked about. Every time that I start that AF or get the BFN, I am hard on myself. I don't need someone else reminding me of how much I am failing. My parents and my married-into-parents are all ready for more grandchildren and they're looking at me to hurry up..and in turn, I'm looking at my body and going.." Hellooo? C'mon body, work!"
So basically, this novel (which I am sorry for)
is basically to ask, did you tell your family..and do any of your relatives react like mind, if so, how do you handle it without sounding very snotty? Thanks so much!!