nervous - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

pookiepoo · 02-13-2007, 03:13 PM

Here's my story.
I miscarried back in August and had a D & C. Ever since then I have had weird afs. After finally getting one after two months I decided to chart my temps to figure out if I am ovulating. This past month, (January 28th)after 26 days I did ovulate....big spike in my temp. Since then I am now on DPO 16. No AF yet, my temp has stayed the exact same for three days. No dips in the temps either. My boobs hurt so bad and I have been sleeping a lot. But no nauseu (as of yet) and no cramping like my af would be coming. I know I should test but I am nervous. I don't want to see a BFN OR if I do see a BFP I will be so nervous about miscarring again. I am 27 and my dh and I have been trying for about only about 3 months. Am I being weird for not wanting to know...or is this normal. Should I wait a little longer to test? The sad part is I would be due in a week if I didn't miscarrie, so this would be the best gift ever.

alamaz · 02-14-2007, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by pookiepoo

I am 27 and my dh and I have been trying for about only about 3 months. Am I being weird for not wanting to know...or is this normal.

NO!!!! After my first chemcial preg. I was terrified in December to test. I waited until after the new year to test because even though i was 99% sure it would be a BFP the week between xmas and new years- i was partially dreading getting a BFP because I knew I'd be a nervous wreck. DON'T BE NERVOUS! Don't add stress to yourself over something that you can't control. I don't think I slept those first four weeks because i was so worked up and that couldn't have been healthy for me or the baby. It is completely natural now that you are aware of the "other side" of pregnancy to feel the way you're feeling right now. Pick a day this week (after Valentine's day maybe?) and test! You have lots of people sending you tons of baby dust! Good luck!
Amy