I can sympathize.....I am also waiting for AF to just show up. I am on my third cycle since going off bcp. In a perfect 28 day cycle, AF is due on Monday. This morning I began to have dark brown discharge with a little bit of reddish tint. No cramps tho and that puzzles me. I am usually down for a day with killer cramps the day before AF. I don't know what is going on.....
Good luck to you.....hopefully you will get one or the other very soon, hopefully, your bfp!!
I am also waiting for my AF. I was expecting it around the 14th and it still is a no show. I hate testing and getting a BFN though. So I am just waiting for the AF to show! I figure I will test the 21st if there is no AF yet. I hate the 2WW!! Hopefully you will get that BFP!!! Baby dust to you.
That's sounds promising, Junebug! Yeah, I am pass the optimistic phase now and am just waiting for af. That way if I happen to BE pg, it would be a pleasant surprise!! It's like reverse psychology, or something
I am sorry about your bfn, maybe you just tested a little to early or it didn't show up for some reason. If your af does show though hopefully next month you will get that bfp!! That is why I haven't tested yet, I would rather wait to make sure that my af isn't just running a few days late. I figure if it hasn't shown up a week after it's expected my chances of seeing a bfn are smaller. I just can't stand testing and getting the disappointment from it. Baby dust to you.
well, af answered my call, and arrived this morning ....so here starts my new cycle....with charting and increasingly more bd (I also vow to not tell DH anything about ovulating, peak days, my cm..yadayada..) Knowing those things, tends to freak him out. He has a tough time, if you know what I mean
I am sorry that Af came .. . . but looking at the bright side you can start getting prepared for next cycle.
My DH doesn t appreciate all the details either. He also moans that we hardly ever get to do fun sex anymore. He says i am too impatient and should just let nature take its course. But its not that easy isn t it?
Did you start temping? Are you temping orally or vaginally?
I read that vaginal readings may be slightly more accurate so i m having it done that way. But oral readings are just as good.
Junebug LLovegood the game isn t over until af shows so wishing you both lots of sticky baby dust. Keep us posted
I am on CD 15 and should ovulate any minute. Though dreading the 2WW.
Yeah, so true now I can start really figuring out when I am ovulating..I will do it orally and see how that goes for a bit.
Amy--Your DH sounds just like mine. He tells me it will happen when it is meant to happen...I can't always accept that!!!
I'm still waiting for AF. I'm on cd46 now. I tested a while back and got a BFN, but I haven't tested since. I tested more of a formality than anything, SO hasn't been home much so I'm pretty confident that I'm not pregnant, I wish that was my excuse!!
About the temping, I also read that vaginally is just slightly more accurate but I look at it this way - As long as you temp the same way the temps will be relative to each other, no matter which way you temp! I started temping midcycle only because I figured there's no time like the present! If I had waited (I'd still be waiting!!) then I don't know if I would've started temping when AF arrived.
Good luck this cycle Rachel!!
CD 46 that must be quite annoying eh. Everything s just longer for you it must be terrible. I have a 29 day cycle and each wait seems so long ..... i should complain less. Is there something you can do to redulate this?
Sorry about THE BFN . . .. . .. Hope you get AF soon so that you can start your new cycle and can look forward to ovulation