desperate for advice pls reply - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

mariella · 02-20-2007, 08:14 PM

Hello Ladies, hoping you have any advice for me about this. I am on day 29 of a 28 day cycle (sometimes 29day cycle and rarely 30 day cycle) Usually I will spot from 1 to 3 days before AF arrives but so far no spotting/no AF at all. I have the usual symptoms, going to the toilet all the time, tired, achy back, sore breasts, but of course these could be my wild imagination playing tricks on me.

I did a test this morn and it was negative so now I feel that I don't know either way whether I am PG or not and it's so frustrating and upsetting to not know. I don't want to get my hopes up. Its just that I would usually see some spotting by now but nothing. With my other pg I did tests at the same time and got very very faint lines on the tests but I am sort of saying to myself that I shouldn't try to corrospond today with the same day in my last pg (if that makes sense!!) because each pg is different, so maybe I might get a faint line tommorrow!!!

I was wondering if any of you have gotten BFP at different stages, say one early and the next pg you didn't get a positive at the same time but later. Thank you so much for reading and best wishes and good luck to you all.

bricely · 02-21-2007, 01:05 PM

WELL LET me tell you buy experience i took a PG test and it came back negative, because i tested to soon a week later i tested again and it was positive it all depends on your body on how much hormones it releases some people get a positive right away but for some it has to be the exact date when you were suppose to get your af or wait a day and take it keep us posted please and let me know how it turns out

Amy 333 · 02-21-2007, 01:15 PM

As bricely wrote these things vary . Most people seem to get a positive result when AF is due . When i got pregnant last summer i had my first positive HPT 2 weeks after AF was due. I had done about 10 pregnancy tests of different brands in the previous 2 weeks and they were all negative. i was very concerned since i was never late.
In fact the dr told me never to rely on HPT again since they are not accurate with me. NOw i try to wait up to 2 days from when AF is due and then do a blood test.

Good luck i hope you get your BFP
Amy

mariella · 02-21-2007, 02:06 PM

well I am now on day 30, no spotting no AF. I would usually definately see some spotting before AF by now but when I visit the bathroom, nothing! Still having symptoms (i think) but I have done 3 tests all BFN. I don't know what is going on and I am so stressed, just being in limbo not knowing if this is it or not. If AF is coming, why would it be late? Just wish I could know either way.

I have had period type cramps for the last few days, (as my last pg and also like before AF) but when I check there is no spotting at all. This morning I am having pinchy like, quick sharp pains down below, any ideas what this could be?

Maybe I should have a blood test to check, are blood tests more sensitive than urine because right now, nothing is showing up on the home tests and with my other pg I had very very faint lines by now. Any ideas to put me out of my misery would be much appreciated. Best wishes to you all.
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bricely · 02-21-2007, 03:34 PM

stressing over your af also makes you late try to relax and not think about it that much i know its going to be hard to do that sinc you want a BFP but stressing isn't helping either