Is It To Soon - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

McKenzie2007 · 08-17-2007, 12:18 AM

Hello ladies well i something i needto ask i give birth to my stillborn daughter on 7/25/2007 and i want to know how soon is to soon to try again most people i know said to wait a year or longer but the only thing is on my mind is to try again have anyone ever felt the same way are is it just me

blue_eyed_girl · 08-17-2007, 12:56 PM

I have had friends who miscarried and were told to wait 2-3 cycles before trying again. I am not sure if it would be the same for you.

seeiay · 08-17-2007, 01:20 PM

Hi, I m/c on 7/4/7 with a blighted ovum. My dr. told me that I could start trying after first period post m/c. It would make sense to me that you might need a little more time to heal physically since you were farther along in your pregnancy than me (I was at 12 weeks). What has your dr. told you?

I totally understand that you want to get pregnant again soon. I felt that way as soon as I knew that I was going to lose my baby. I am so sorry that you lost your little angel. You aren't the only one who feels this way. When you are ready I hope you get your miracle right away. -Christine

Sophiesmomma · 08-17-2007, 10:59 PM

McKenzie,

I am truly and deeply sorry for your loss...I have experienced both a m/c and an ectopic (both very early into the pregnancy, but still both losses) and I do understand your desire for a child..I felt the same way and couldn't wait to get started ttc again. However, I did wait a few cycles after my m/c and a cycle after my ectopic. Have you had a normal menstrual cycle yet?

Take care and God bless,
Rachel