My DH and I had planned on starting to TTC in April. We quit smoking and I have started prenatal vitamins to help get my body the nutrients that it needs.
My father, stepfather, stepmother, and FIL are all excited and want us to get pregnant because they want grand children. (on my wedding night my stepfather said GET PREGO ON YOUR HONEYMOON I WANT A BABY!)
My mother and MIL on the other hand are very nonsupporting. I understand why but do not agree with them. I am in college still and though having a child will make things a bit more difficult, I am not going to drop out. My mother had her first when she was 17 and not married, my sister 18 and not married. My mother keeps comparing me to my sister even though our situations are completely different. I am 23, married to a great man, and am ready for children. My mil has been calling my husband when I am not around and pushing for him to wait. Now he is considering holding off on kids for a while longer. (he has always been under her thumb)
I am very upset about this and am wondering how I could bring it up to my husband without fighting. He mentioned it in a very roundabout way and I just had to walk away before I started crying.