I came across this site today and felt like joining this community.
I am new to this site so pls understand ...Heres my problem..
Its been 4 yrs since we married. My husband and I have very poor sex life. Long time passed and he is still not able to reach my inside.
when i usually go to gynac for the fertility treatment, she wud check my uterus by inserting her finger inside it. which was very painful to me. Dr says that husband's organ is not able to reach that place. i am very very disappointed after hearing and testing this thing. What shoud I do? Should I go for an IUI test or shud i continue trying naturally? Our frequency of intercourse is also very low as 5 to 6 times a month.
Ok first change doctors. Second your dh is never going to reach your uterus no matter how long his penis maybe. The reason being is your cervix(the mouth of the uterus) wont allow a penis through it. All that matters is your dh is ejaculating inside your vagina closer to the cervix the better. The reason I said change doctors is because whoever you are seeing has no clue what they are doing to tell you something like that.
Next step is get the book Taking Charge Of Your Fertility and start charting your cycles. This way since you dont have sex that often you can arrange for the sex to happen when you are your most fertile.
Also make sure you both are eating healthy and you are taking prenatal vitamins or some vitamins that have folic acid in them. It is very importnat for a growing baby. The book I suggested will give you tons of wonderful info on what you should be doing ot increase your chances of pregnancy.
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Married 3/25/95
DS 13 yr
DS 8 yr (3+ yrs ttc)
TTC #3 since 01/02
I have to agree with Blastoff here, no man can enter the uterus it is physically impossible. As long as he ejaculates inside the vagina when you are ovulating then there is a chance of conceiving. You need to learn about your cycles, so you can predict when you ovulate. Also is there a medical reason as to why your sex life is not good? These are all things you can look into. Best of luck.
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