We're taking a break... - Trying to Conceive (TTC) Message Board

Fertile_Myrtle · 11-29-2007, 01:11 PM

I had a miscarriage over the weekend... tested positive Friday night & Saturday morning... then it all went so fast and ended up miscarrying early Sunday morning... I was 4 wks 2 days by the doc's calculations... So we are taking a break from TTC for a while.... I'm a bit sad and depressed... I don't ever want to go through this horrible mess again.... but I want another baby...

nalphee · 11-29-2007, 02:21 PM

So sorry to hear that....you are going to be ok. Take your time healing and take care of yourself!

Cupcake3 · 11-29-2007, 08:28 PM

Sorry to hear of your loss..

take care of yourself. TAke time to heal..

with time you will be better....

Fertile_Myrtle · 11-30-2007, 08:23 AM

My husband kinda threw me for a loop last night, and I don't know if it was just curiousity or if he was being serious.... he asked me how long it would take me to get pregnant again... meaning how quickly could it happen since I just had the miscarriage...

He completely blew me away... Men just don't get it! I know he wants another baby, but GIVE ME A BREAK! Seriously, its been a week just today since I had found out that I was pregnant... and I'm still a train wreck. I don't even want to think about getting pregnant again this month~ looks like I'm gonna be faking sleep for a while...

jbruhmuller · 11-30-2007, 01:36 PM

He probably didn't mean anything by it, he may have thought that if you started trying again right away it would be easier to handle or maybe that was just his way of coping. But I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt your feelings.