well...yes i tested and it said it was negative, i'm about 42 days out and it's driving me nuts! i did spot a tiny little bit today, but i don't understand what's going on. If i'm going to start my period i wish it would start already. when i was prego last year my first test came up negative and then 3 wks later it was positive. (so , i m confused) i think i'm over stressing about ttc. i think i need to just forget about it and go on with my life and it's bound to happen. I thought of taking these pills from my accupunturist that is to help build up blood, in hopes that my period would start, but if for some reason i was prego, i'd really worry. i'm not sure what to think. I should probably take whitewolfes advice and get a blood test done. Anyway, thanks for asking!!