| Miscarriage with new partner
Hi,
My partner, has two beautiful kids, and boy and girl. However these where with her ex partner, and yes I treat them like my own, I love them too bits.
She has conceived and given birth to two kids, one of which the older was a twin but sadly she lost his twin during the pregnancy.
However we have been caught out twice now and both times within the first 8 weeks we have lost the baby. This is a very hard time for us both obviously but we are struggling to understand why.
Most recent was this weekend. Very hard for us both as I am sure you are aware.
I have in the past had one partner loose a child and one abort one (not my choice as I didn't even know).
I can see a trend here with me, moreover my swimmers. May I ask should I go and get checked out? If so is it a trip to the doctors and explain whats happened and ask for them to check me out make sure every thing is ok
I want to make this clear that I am in no way blaming her at all, I want to try and make sure I am ok and its me at fault and not her as she has said she would love to have a baby with me but if I am at fault then wouldnt it be best to not?
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