| | loss of erection & pain
Ok, so when I was in elementary school, I had corrective surgery for testicular tortion. I've really not been with too many women during my life, but every time the same things happen...
a. If we mess around a lot (hour or two) without actually getting off, I get severe pain around my testes (right worse than left). Also, I can't get an erection back when this happens! It's like i'm dead in the water and have to wait a looong time (3hr +) for it to return to normal. This almost sounds like blueballs, but there's no way I could have sex to release the tension.
b. I lose my erection rather easily... I think, maybe, I just mentally get distracted 'cause I have NO problem masturbating, but it's so different with another person. Should I just stop masturbating & re-orient on the girl, or maybe there could be some related issues to hormones, diet, the torsion surgery & scar tissue, etc.
Any help would be appreciated!