Autumn Angel -- That's quite a list there!
Just one question, why do you post it as your signature? No offense, I'm just wondering why you'd want everyone to know these things right off the bat? Again, no offense, I'm simply curious!
I know what it's like to suffer from bladder problems and have numerous urologists and doctors say there seems to be nothing causing it!
In my case, it's a muscle problem! After I pee, a lot of the time I feel like I have to go again, it burns, I get a bad urge, and it interferes with my normal daily life a lot! When this happens, I can clearly feel my bladder/urethra contracting and sometimes it lasts a long time! Usually after an hour or so, the feeling is gone, but I had it last night and again this morning, and I have to work in an hour!
I've been told I have an overactive bladder, but nothing seems to help it! My last resort is going to be Kegal Exercises to toughen up the muscles! There is no treatment for an overactive bladder, unless there is something causing it! (ie. a fallen bladder)
Anyway, just thought I'd share in case that's what either of you are feeling!
Good luck!