Originally Posted by jcifjr
My Urologist mentioned in passing that I might wind up with retrograde ejaculation but said it wouldn't be a big deal. It IS a big deal.
My sex life had not been the same since. ...
Damn right it is a big deal!
We find out the hard way: doctors don't think like normal people do, and one cannot rely on them for that kind of judgement.
Even if it weren't a big deal from the point of view of sensation, it obviously could be a big deal to anyone trying for a baby.
I don't really know how fixable this would be, but I'm not at all optimistic. If there were a reliable fix, your doctor would have been in a position to say 'if that happens, we can fix it'; instead, he says 'if that happens, it's no big deal'.
Sorry I can't be more encouraging. Maybe get medical advice on this, then cross-examine it to death before deciding to try anything they suggest.