SharedHearts

HI! my cousin who is in her late 50's had a serious over weight problem she is obeast she had a horrid life really rough I wont get into everything the list is to long. But the last was the last straw for her, her 2nd husband died of pantatric cancer and after she ate and ate all she did my aunt_ my cousins mom said. She's depressed, se over ate and te Dr said she is dying cause she is so over weight , she went to Mexico to get lap band surgery and before 2 yrs before everyone talked her out of it and she didn't tell anyone until she came back she had half her stomach taken out and the Dr said the surgery turned out well.
The Dr's she seen said well you have to leave with it and 1 Dr said it's your fault you did this to yourself. :-( we where furious when we heard, They gave her test after test finally found out she had gall bladder problems and now she is out of the hospital and the Dr said he had a patient before her same problem she was throwing up and can't keep nothing down, before they gave her 3 bags with her stay in the hospital of morhine and gave her stuff they gave cancer patients to stop her from being ill to her stomach they tried everything to keep her from being ill and to be able to eat nothing works.
My question do you have a idea any one what this could be she has? Most all can you suggest anything from keeping from vomiting? I'd appreciate it. I know all tha damage it's causing and making her weak. I feel so helpless please help?
Thank you.
ps I am furious they DIDN"T keep her in the hospital and intervenislie feed her, yes after surgery they let her out instead of keeping her in the hospital.
any questions please ask if need more infor from me.
thank you.