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Old 01-06-2005, 04:45 AM   #1
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Angry Got Equipment, No motivation!!!!!

Okay here is the problem! I have a treadmill, smith machine, stairstepper, free weights......everything necessary to loose this weight that I've gained the past 5 months! What triggered me to stop was my husband's son that is 22 now and he stays up all night and sleeps all day! I like to work out in the a.m. cause that's the best time to I think. Anyways, it was 10:30 a.m. and I had my music on and on the treadmill,like I did everyday prior also! I looked good, felt good and never felt sick! Well he and I got into a very heated argument and ever since then I have barely worked out, been eating all the time and have gained probably bout 30-35 lbs.! Lost alot of muscle.....it's all covered in a layer of fat! So how can I get past this and start working out again? My husband won't make him get out on his own......his son is such a baby!!!! For real, I'm not kiddin when I say that! I mean the argument was really bad and I was yelling at him and he said that I am coming between his relationship with his dad! Well, I'm not responsible for his relationship with his dad! Anyways, anybody have some advice they would like to give me about this to maybe help me get out of this stooper that I'm in and start working out again..........I'm really out of shape and need advice asap!!! Thanks in advance............Christina
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Old 01-06-2005, 01:09 PM   #2
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Re: Got Equipment, No motivation!!!!!

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husband's son that is 22 now and he stays up all night and sleeps all day!
That's not your fault. I'd tell him to just deal with it.

 
Old 01-06-2005, 01:39 PM   #3
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Angry Re: Got Equipment, No motivation!!!!!

Yes I think so too! I told him that it wasn't my fault he stayed up all night and slept all day and he just started yellin back at me and I went to his dad and his dad yelled at him, but ever since then it's been really hard for me to continue doing anything that I enjoy because of his son being here. I think he should move out and find his own life, but that's not my call.......I could go on, but it's too crazy of a story and this isn't the forum for that, but I know that if I don't get this weight back off I'm never going to be happy about myself again and be comfortable in my own skin.......ya know!!!! Ugh!!! Maybe I should just do my thing and not let him get in my way anymore????? You think?????
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Re: Got Equipment, No motivation!!!!!

Sounds like maybe you are an emotional eater, that certain instances trigger you to eat when you're not really hungery- and that has caused you to gain weight. Motivation can be a tough thing, it's just as difficult to pull it out of the closet along with the weight equipment. Do this, every time you reach for something to eat- stop & question yourself. Ask yourself if you are truley hungry, or if you are eating to compfort yourself. It can be difficult to descern sometimes, but if you stop yourself everytime, you may be able to put down the snack food & decide if you're doing it to feed your body, or feed your emotions. Emotional eating can form really bad habits, it can really make you loose track of when your body needs to eat- because you only eat when your emotions are triggered. Any time you feel that you are eating just to compfort yourself, try to put the snack down & use that energy you would have spent on eating- and use that energy to work out instead. I know how extra weight can make you feel- it really is depressing at times, but just try to remain positive of how happy you will feel when you loose the weight that you want to. Weight loss can be a really gratifying thing because we did it OURSELVES, and no matter what- no one else did it for you, you accomplished this all on your own. Try to remain positive & don't let emotions get in the way of your progress. Take it one day at a time & you will succeed. If you ever back track, don't consider it a failure...remember, there is allways a NEW day when you wake up in the morning, so if one day you fail, you have another sunrise to wake up to and start again!

 
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Talking Re: Got Equipment, No motivation!!!!!

Hi Summer! Thankyou so much for your advice and you are so right about me being an emotional eater! I've been battling this since I can't even remember, but it's been a real struggle! I am going to do just as you said, stop and ask myself if I'm really hungry. Most of the time, I'm not!!!! But I will eat anyways........I sometimes have trouble with bulimia, but I've gotten a grip on that over the years........so today I will do my thing on my treadmill and do some other exercises as well and not look for anything negative to stop me! What you said really made so much sense to me! It's nice to have someone that understands and supports me and gives me positive advice to help to motivate me.........Thankyou.......
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