First and foremost men's mags and porns are airbrushed or editted to give the so called perfect ideal woman.
Every woman is different hence the labias will be different. Also what appears to be large to you may not actually be that large. We have a tendency to enlarge things we find wrong with us and belittle the things that are right with ourselves.
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