hey, im new to this board
i think i may know what you are talking about... i deal with something similar... i havent been able to do anything about it (nor have i really tried) since im not sexually active right now but it has made me self-consious because of it when i was sexually active
one of my partners thought it was a turn on for him because he thought that i was always aroused and "wet" which kind of helped the situation... but i always worried because i would have discharge and wetness on my panties
sometimes it's just plain embarassing if it shows through my pants or shorts... so although i have no solution, you're not alone