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Old 02-06-2006, 03:01 PM   #1
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Is it wrong to ask for a lap to be done??

I posted a couple days ago about what's been going on recently - ovarian cysts, severe pain, fluid in my pelvic area and possible endo. I'm meeting with the gyn doc on Thursday and the more this pain continues the more I want to just have the lap done and get things under control. The doc had mentioned Lupron but one of the side effects is depression and I'm currently being treated for depression/suicidality so that's out. I've tried continuous BCP in the past but not recently. It didn't help a whole lot but I've never had pain this bad - I'm on pain meds right now. So when I have my appt this week I really want to just ask him to go ahead with the procedure. But I don't want to come across like I'm pushing for surgery, although I guess I sort of am. Has anyone else been in this position? What did you do?

 
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Old 02-06-2006, 08:57 PM   #2
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Re: Is it wrong to ask for a lap to be done??

Hi,
I have been in the situation you are in. I was in a lot of pain with severe lower back pain. I was the one who actually looked up and found endometriosis and realized that my symptoms matched up and that I could possibly have it. I told my gyno and she told me that my symptoms didn't match up to those of endo because of the fact that they didn't correlate to my menstrual cycle. I knew she was wrong though. They were trying to make me believe that my back pain was a pulled muscle. I knew it was more serious than that and that it was being caused by something inside and since it was so low down I knew it had to be my reproductive organs. The cramps I was also having everyday matched up to the exact same spot on my back where the pain was coming from. I also had and still have pain around my navel, so my gyno suggested that I see a gastro doc first before I had a lap done. So I waited, but the pain kept getting worse and I even had to go to the ER one day. They gave me all kinds of pain relievers and even Morphine but nothing helped get rid of my back pain at all. So I was sent home from the ER with the same amount of pain and all drugged up and sick. I finally decided that I needed to do something, because if no pain pills were helping I knew the only way would be the lap. I called my gyno and explained that the pain was getting worse and that I wanted the lap done right away. She first decided to prescribe me this narcotic pain pill to see if that would help. Only later did I realize that it was the same pills I had that didn't work. So again I called back to my gyno, with the support and advice of some very helpful ladys on this site and told her that nothing was helping the pain and I couldn't take the pain any longer, and that I wanted the surgery done soon. She decided to move my surgery up to the next week. Finally I had gotten somewhere and they listend to me. I got the lap done and she did find endo on the back of my uterus. She then told me that the back pain was caused by this. So what I'm trying to tell you and everyone is that you shouldn't have to wait if you are in a lot of pain. You just have to be very involved in your health issues,...you have to give your doctors a push sometimes. If I wouldn't of found out about endo they probably never would of even suggestd endo to me. I went through a lot to get my diagnosis and I know that a lot of other women go through this to. I don't want to see you have to go through this. Like one lady told me on here, "You know your body better than the doctors do." and if you feel that endo is what is causing your pain you have the right to tell your doctor that you want the lap done. Don't give up either...don't let them push you around. It's your body and your health. Take care of it. I truly wish you the best of luck. I know what your going through. Hold in there!

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Old 02-07-2006, 10:37 AM   #3
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Re: Is it wrong to ask for a lap to be done??

Thanks for your reply Jenny! I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of that before getting the lap done. I feel like I'm in a similar position you were. I've been having continous pain and they keep giving me drugs to help. Sometimes the meds help but I can't stay on this stuff forever. Right now I'm on Ultram and Percocet for when the pain is really intense. I'm not an addict but staying on this stuff for a long period of time could present problems. I'm hoping that the doctor I see in CA will be more willing to do the lap since I'm flying out there from Vermont. The doc out here was willing to do a lap but I'd rather have it done near friends and family. I just feel a little weird asking for the surgery but I'm not sure why. I know that we all have to be our own advocates for our health but that's SO hard to do!! I always have all these great things to say to the doctor before going there but I end up not being too persuasive when I'm actually talking to them - I give in quite easily. Ironically this isn't the case in my "real" life but there's something about doctors that intimidates me. Thanks for your advice - it really helped to know that the lap helped you and you found someone to listen to your concerns.

 
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Re: Is it wrong to ask for a lap to be done??

whats lap?

 
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Re: Is it wrong to ask for a lap to be done??

lap is short for laproscopic surgery. They do it with lasers and a little camera instead of the old fashioned method of cutting you open!

 
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