Weird things happening during O
Ok please bear with me, i think this might be a little long. I want to make sure I explain everything just right.
As I said in the title, weird things are happening during ovulation which is totally not normal for me. My problem started after a D&E in April of 05. I was put on birth control directly after which I took until September of 05. So for 5 months I didn't ovulate and therefore had no problems. Then in Sept. I stopped taking the birth control because it was causing irregular bleeding. I was starting my period almost 2 weeks before I should and not stopping until almost 2 weeks into the new pack. Excluding a couple of days, it was pretty much non stop. And by that time my body should've been used to it. So I stopped taking it.
From September 05 to February 06, my periods were very irregular. I'm 25 years old and never in my life have I had cycles messed up like this. I've given birth to 2 girls(ages 6 and 4) and from my very first period at the age of 13 up until Sept. I always had 28 day cycles. In my experience, if I was 1 day late, I was always pregnant. That's how reliable my periods were. But from Sept to Feb i was having cycles as long as 45 days, then the next would 38 then 24. It was crazy. The weird pain during ovulation is what has me worried the most though. When I start to ovulate i get really bad pain in the pelvic region. But the pain is so low it almost feels like its in the rectal area. I just ovulated a couple days ago and i felt inside to see if I could tell a roundabout area it's coming from. And it's directly at the end of my vaginal canal. Not at my cervix but maybe an inch and a half behind it. This pain is also there when my bowels move in my lower intestines. It hurts so much sometimes I just was to curl up in a ball and cry. It also hurts to sit and run, even walking heavily causes it to hurt. But this ONLY happens during ovulation. It stays sore for a couple days after too. I can't have sex during O because of this which is a bummer because my BF and I are wanting to TTC. We had sex 1 time during O last month and it hurt so bad afterwards I cried for about 2 hours. I almost went to the ER but decided against it instead. We didn't have sex this time but the pain was still almost as bad.
I saw my gyn in Oct Nov and Feb. He ran a ton of blood tests to check my hormones and they all came back normal. The pelvic ultrasound was normal also. I finally agreed to go on birth control in Feb and again stopped taking it in July due to the zero libido that came with it. I'm on my second cycle now since stopping and the O pain is still there, but I have ovulated on time both times and last month my cycle was only 30 days after my last withdrawal bleed. So I guess that's good.
I know something's not right but I'm scared to go back to my gyn because he'll probably just tell me that a lot of women have O pain and think I'm exagerrating. I don't know what it's like for other women but this definitely isn't normal for me. How am I supposed to get pregnant when I can't even have sex while I'm ovulating??
If anyone has any insight as to what might be causing this please let me know. I plan on making another appt. with my gyn soon but I'd like to have some info and maybe offer suggestions when I see him. Thanks in advance for any advice you can give!