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Old 01-06-2007, 09:52 PM   #1
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Hey guys! *sigh*. I don't know what to do about this. I'm 21 almost 22 and I have small boobs. I eat alot and they don't grow. Only my tummy does. My sister is younger than me and she's so lucky. She has a beautiful body. She's a B or a C cup and I'm only a stupid A. It hurts me to think about it. I feel god doesn't like me for making my younger sister bigger than me. PPl say be thankful cause some ppl don't have any boobs or whatever right? But thats not it. I'm human too and I have feelings and what not. Everyone in my family has what there suppose to have except me...I don't know anymore. I went to a sexual health clinic to talk about it with someone and they couldn't help me. I spoke to this woman and she said try talking to someone at school. I don't know if my college allows councelling for part time students. I only know they do for full time. I'm not sure what to do who to talk to anymore. I had a councellor I was seeing for lonliness and this issue. She is going to think I'm crazy if I discuss this again. Why do things have to be like this? Why does my younger sister have to be the lucky one? You can't do anything with A cups....... It sucks big time.

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Old 01-06-2007, 10:14 PM   #2
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You know babydiva I wouldn't freak out over your small boobs. Heck I'm an A too and my little sister is a darn B. It used to bother me a lot, sorta how you're feeling right now. Over the years I learned to like my body the way that I am. If a guy does not like you for having small boobs then he's not the one for you. If a guy is that shallow than god you can demand a 6" penis before you date any guy! You may not realize it but guys are insecure about their penis size the way girls worry about their boobs. I'm just a few years older than you too and I found a wonderful guy that loves me for me. He loves me and my small boobs A guy friend once told me that most guys will love a girl with big boobs but it's not the main thing. Their main worry is you haven't got a vagina! (sorry if I'm a bit graphic) And don't ever feel like you're weird or anything like that for feeling the way you do. You have every right to be mad either at mother nature for being unfair but we also need to learn to live with what we're given and sometimes things are just unfair.

There are options like breast implants etc. if you feel that strongly to have larger breast but from my experience I've had no problem getting guys! Use your other assets to your advantage like your facial features, your thighs etc. You're also not alone, lots of women out there are have small breasts and they are doing ok. Hope this helps.

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Old 01-07-2007, 11:41 AM   #3
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OK. Thanx. But um ya. Well this boob things has been a problem for me since I was a teen growing up right?. BUt it stopped bothering me then. I figured I'm a teen so i'm still growing, why worry? But now it's weird. I wish I had my sister's boobs. Yes, I know there's implants. The thing I hate...LOL. It's plastic. Whats the point first of all. And secondly it's not the best. There are health risks. I know if I get pregnant they'll grow, but I'm not ready for kids yet. I was at a site and apparently it said that and it also said if you eat alot and gain weight they grow. I do eat alo sometimes. I do put on weight off and on. But I don't see them growing. Only my tummy.

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Old 01-08-2007, 05:51 AM   #4
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Re: My breasts.

Sorry, I just found out you can't send each other personal messages. Feel free to post your feelings onto this board though. We're here to support you. Gaining weight for me didn't work either as you never am able to gain weight in places you want! The rational behind the idea that if you gain weight your breasts will grow is that it'll grow in proportion to the rest of your body. That is it's "supposely" grow in proportion! I've heard that if you are on birth control pills it'll probably increase your breast size. It works for some and it doesn't work for others. The idea is sorta the same as getting pregnant since the pill will trick your body into thinking you are pregnant so it might make your breasts bigger. Mind you it won't protect you from STD/STI's but we all know how to protect ourselves I know I was very mad, ashamed, shy etc. about my breast size before but trust me there are plenty of guys out there that will love you. Think of it this way, hahaha we don't need to strap down anything if you excercise! My sister always envys my small boobs since she thinks it's not all that great to have larger breasts. Her concern now is that it'll sag and etc.

 
Old 01-08-2007, 06:37 PM   #5
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Your sister's jealous of your's? Why?? She has nice ones. I mean, I don't know I never seen them. But I know there nice. B's and C's are always nice. And ok ya, when your aging it's one thing. They will sag I know, but when your young you want to be beautiful don't you? Everyone has to get old sometime so ya I know ppl's bodies will change. I used birth control when I was 15, 16 and 17. Didn't seem to do much for my boobs. But again, I didn't worry cause I was younger and could have still been growing. I never thought about what you said until you said it. That they do grow in porportionate to the body type. So in other words I will not go up a cup size? Not unless I get pregnant right? See the thing is. You could do alot with B's and C's. What can you do with A's? I don't necessarily mean you. But your b/f or ya.

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Old 01-08-2007, 06:52 PM   #6
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Re: My breasts.

if I could trade boobs with you...I would.... because my big breast are nothing but trouble. what is more than a handful is a waste.
back problems..... I need a reduction!

also....now a days...most men are into a woman's butt...like j.lo.... it is not all about the boobs anymore!

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Old 01-08-2007, 06:58 PM   #7
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Butts too, I know. I find mine is kool though. My boobs aren't a handful. Most guys like a handful or more. An A cup isn't a handful even.. And Maybe you'd want smaller boobs, but I doubt you'd want them as small as an A cup.

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Old 01-08-2007, 11:14 PM   #8
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if I could trade boobs with you...I would.... because my big breast are nothing but trouble. what is more than a handful is a waste.
back problems..... I need a reduction!

also....now a days...most men are into a woman's butt...like j.lo.... it is not all about the boobs anymore!

I totally agree, I went from an E cup down to a D when i had finished breast feeding my first son, then on the second I went from D to C, I was over the moon, I breast fed my third and final son but they never shrank any smaller and i was gutted. From being about 13 i always had huge breasts at school, got loads of unwanted attention fromlads, which i hated got called loads of crude names like *beeps* on legs etc, it made me feel really awkward, when i went for job interviews they spoke to my chest not my face, I could never wear nice little bikinis or sun tops cos i knew people would stare. Thats not to mention the big horrible bras, because they little lacy ones didnt come in my size, big straps that cut into my shoulders, and the terrible back ache. My poor sister was a h cup until she had a reduction she managed to get to a c but they are growing back. I know you say you dont like the idea of breast implants, but what about those little pads that can be put into your bra, not sure what they are called but my friend wears them, they look like chicken fillets for better way of describing them (and that is her name for them too) Lots of beautiful people only have small breasts look at allthe catwalk models, and no one thinks anything of it. I know it probably doesnt make you feel any better about yourself and your needs, but i was just trying to give you an insight of someone who hates having large breasts.
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Old 01-09-2007, 08:19 AM   #9
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Re: My breasts.

Well I wouldn't want large breasts. They wouldn't fit my size anyway. I'm sorry about how you feel though. *hugs*. But an A's to small for a woman I think. I mean, I think a B would look nice. Not over that. When I say I want bigger I dont' mean large. I'm 5 feet 1 and so I don't weigh much and ya....I had my mom tell me I have nothing once or twice and didn't need to wear a bra. When I went in a lingire store to try on a sexy lingire I couldn't even fit into it. I don't want large boobs, but I dun like being tiny to the point where I can't fit into beautiful feminin clohtes or under clothes.

 
Old 01-09-2007, 08:44 AM   #10
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I totally agree, I went from an E cup down to a D when i had finished breast feeding my first son, then on the second I went from D to C, I was over the moon, I breast fed my third and final son but they never shrank any smaller and i was gutted. From being about 13 i always had huge breasts at school, got loads of unwanted attention fromlads, which i hated got called loads of crude names like *beeps* on legs etc, it made me feel really awkward, when i went for job interviews they spoke to my chest not my face, I could never wear nice little bikinis or sun tops cos i knew people would stare. Thats not to mention the big horrible bras, because they little lacy ones didnt come in my size, big straps that cut into my shoulders, and the terrible back ache. My poor sister was a h cup until she had a reduction she managed to get to a c but they are growing back. I know you say you dont like the idea of breast implants, but what about those little pads that can be put into your bra, not sure what they are called but my friend wears them, they look like chicken fillets for better way of describing them (and that is her name for them too) Lots of beautiful people only have small breasts look at allthe catwalk models, and no one thinks anything of it. I know it probably doesnt make you feel any better about yourself and your needs, but i was just trying to give you an insight of someone who hates having large breasts.

I am with you guys.. I have recently lost a couple of stone & my boobs havent shifted at all. I am a DD but only 5ft3"..I have had numerous back problems..strap marks in my shoulders which look awful..you can run, no excersize bra will hold these in one place so if you attempt to do anything even slightly energetis lets say, you get black eyes !!!! 1 of mine weighs 1lb 7oz & the other 1lb120z!

I say... learn to love you little ones coz when they are big they are more hassle than they are worth..!!!

 
Old 01-09-2007, 08:59 AM   #11
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Re: My breasts.

Well ya I guess....But what about B's and C's? Aren't they nice? Don't you guys think A's are to small?

 
Old 01-10-2007, 06:08 AM   #12
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You could do alot with B's and C's. What can you do with A's? I don't necessarily mean you. But your b/f or ya.
Trust me on this, there are lots of things you can do with small boobs Like the other ladies have said, it's not all boobs these days. A lot of guys look for other things like a nice butt, slim waist, long legs etc. It really does not limit you just because you have a smaller chest size than some other women out there. We don't all look like those porn stars that seem to have all the attributes men want. The thing is, most of the porn stars body isn't even natural and a lot of the stars body isn't natural either.

Speaking of being thin.... I know what you mean by how hard it is to find sexy lingerie but it is possible. I'm 5'6.5" and 100lbs so imagine how hard it would be for me to find nice clothes AND lingerie but I do. You should check out La Senza and go shop at Victoria Secrets. They got great stuff. Cost more than say Wal-Mart but if it fits your body than it sure is worth it! You can try the chicken fillets or just buy a good push up bra. I personally gave up all the padding, push up bras etc. unless I'm wearing a strapless dress or something when it just looks better to wear one.

Again big boobs are not all superbly great like the ladies have mentioned. It would be great if say I was a B cup instead of an A but my A cup suits my physique(body structure). If you want big boobs should you really say I want to be a B or C cup since it's the "ideal" size? You get the size you're given and unless you get surgery you probably will not get the size you want.

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Old 01-10-2007, 08:45 AM   #13
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Re: My breasts.

Ya. Well surgury is something I'd hate to get. But you understand about me fitting into clothes right? And it's not like I don't eat. I do. Thats just how my life is meant to be I guess.... *shrug* thanx for all your replies though. Thanx
luvgirl for tryna help me out. *gives a small smile*

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Old 01-14-2007, 08:38 PM   #14
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Well, I am 5'5" and 108 lbs (29 yrs old), and I buy bras from the kids' section . I used to be self-conscious about the size of my breasts (I also have a younger sister with larger breasts), but now I am pleased with my body and my long-term boyfriend is too.

In short, you CAN find suitable clothes for your size (kid section or Victoria Secret, like someone already mentioned), and there are plenty of guys out there who can love you the way you are. The only thing left now is for you, babydiva, to love your body the way it is, and trust most of us here saying breast size is not really that important (not in the big scheme of things anyway ). Projecting self-confidence and being comfortable with yourself are very attractive features in a woman, so work on that.

I'll leave you with a rhetorical question: if you were a guy, who would you rather date, a C-cup full of insecurities or a happy-with-herself A-cup?

 
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Hi
i also have very small boobs and used to be very ashamed and depressed. i'm nearly 30 now and have learnt 2 accept them. what i suggest first is that u stop focusing on them, please do not complex nor ruin your life.... second, do not try 2 put on wieght if it doesnt work, if you are thin then its totally acceptable and proportionate 2 have small boobs. third, many men like them small as they are firm, prettier than saggy boobs- also many just dont really care bout looks: a nice smile + personality should do the job! the advantage is that u can wear summer tops without any bra and its sexy... anyway the important is that u reveal ur other assets and show ur confidence - and you'll soon forget ur worries and b happier

 
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