am I pregnant?.... please help! - Women's Health Message Board

lovely_baby · 10-15-2007, 06:03 PM

I've been in a "friends with benefit" relationship with this guy, that i absolutely love so much for about 3 weeks., and he prefers unprotected sex

he's never "done it" inside supposedly, but I know even precum can get you pregant

my last period was about 2 weeks ago, and now I see some dark brownish things on my underwear, and cramps too..

also right now, i'm doing a lot of exams and under a lot of stress, on top of that I am catching a cold, runny nose.. and a headache

I dont know if I am just stressed out or i'm actualy pregnant!!!

any advice or opinion would help!

THANKS

Xant · 10-15-2007, 06:11 PM

If you are spotting, it could be the stress ...sadly though, it will only be a matter of time before you get pregnant with no birth control...he wont have to have the baby, you will...get on the pill asap.

lovely_baby · 10-15-2007, 07:18 PM

I'm just wondering, if the spotting was really caused by the implantation of the fertilized egg, would a pregnancy test help right now?

jen52983 · 10-16-2007, 11:55 AM

Do you want to get pregnant? As the previous poster said, it'll only be a matter of time before it happens with your current birth control "method."

Of course everyone likes sex without a condom... but tell your Friend to get over it unless he wants to be a Dad!! And I know that emotions for people make us do crazy things, but unless you're trying to get pregnant, then either make him use a condom or get on the pill. "No glove, no love!"