Re: can someone help me
You should make an appointment with your doctor to find out whether your mother's problem will also be yours. Because I have a feeling that the answer will be no. Just because your mom had this problem doesn't mean you're going to have it too. And maybe if you have a doctor's response on the issue, your family will leave you alone.
But also, you're a married adult with your own family (that is yourself and your husband) now. You can't let anything that anyone, including your parents, tell you what to do anymore. It's none of their business how you choose to run your own family. And I think you should tell them that you're going to wait until it's right for you. They can't "force" you to do anything, because it's not their marriage and it's not their business. Tell them you don't appreciate being told how to run your life and tell them to stop telling you what to do or else they won't be a part of your life anymore!!