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Old 09-07-2008, 05:29 PM   #1
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help! i dont know if i'm pregnant or not? answer someone

so imy boyfriend and i decided to have sex even though i was waiting for marriage... well we did it last night (my first time), but it was only for a couple of seconds. it hurt when he went inside me so i told him to take it out. i dont think he comed because after it was out.. he masturbated and it came out.. i have read these stories about pre-ejaculation so i dont know if that happened to me! like i said it was only for a little while.. i bled too? is that because he broke my hymen?

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Old 09-08-2008, 04:43 AM   #2
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Re: help! i dont know if im pregnant or not? answr someone

If he was wearing a condom, you aren't pregnant. Not going to happen from extremely brief contact with condom.

If he wasn't, it's theoretically possible, but extremely unlikely. Use protection if you have sex again, especially since he might ejaculate inside you next time! With very young men, it can happen very quickly. Also, some STDs can be spread more easily than pregnancy.

Pain and some bleeding the first time are normal.

 
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Old 09-13-2008, 04:11 PM   #3
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Re: help! i dont know if im pregnant or not? answr someone

he wasnt wearing one..
im scared..
if its theoretically possible.. i should worry

 
Old 09-14-2008, 12:30 PM   #4
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Re: help! i dont know if i'm pregnant or not? answer someone

Well, it's technically possible but if you say it lasted only a few seconds I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you miss your period then buy a pregnancy test and follow instructions. But I really don't think you need to be that concerned.
A lot of women experience pain during their first time. This varies, but it's normal. And the bleeding is just the hymen breaking.
However, if you have never been to a gynecologist you might want to see one now that you're sexually active.
Don't have sex again without a condom. Getting pregnant is only one of the problems unprotected sex could bring. You can buy them in most pharmacies and supermarkets. It's really important to protect yourself as much as possible.

 
Old 09-24-2008, 06:17 PM   #5
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Re: help! i dont know if i'm pregnant or not? answer someone

well.. i got my period...
and im relieved..
i wont do it again..
i have changed my mind.. i now will wait for marriage because i dont want to deal with this worry of sexually transmitted diseases or pregnancy
thanks for the help

 
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