Can someone tell me when does it end. I have posted many times before so you prob know my story-I am 42 y.o. to start and never had children-have tried and tried and nothing. I went for hysterosono on Tues - Dr could not do it because I have stenosis of the cervix so inserting catheter did not work this hystero is to r/o a polyp. spoke to Dr. yesterday and she said she does not want to put me under because my reg transvaginal sono which was normal - they suspect a tiny polyp-she said suspect because it was not clear. So she said there is a cream I can put the night before a hysterosono which will dialate the cervix. Then on top of that she says I am perimenopausal but I can still have kids-what the hell - perimenopausal so soon - I thought that happened later and I have a sluggish thyroid - Jesus I truly have every thing stacked against me to have a child. I feel so sad, so overwhelmed and olddddd. I have a follow up with Dr. next Friday so I will get more info but I needed to vent. I am confused about having perimenopause yet she says I can get preganant-my cycle is always normal. I feel so sad like my body is doing things that I can not control and I feel like life is passing me by so damn fast.
Sorry to hear that. With you age, it will be difficult-- but not impossible-- to have children. If you want kids you need to see a reproductive endocrinologist right away. Like you said, life happens pretty damn fast and if you want children, you have only a small window of opportunity. It will be a costly investment, but you may end up with a little one in your arms if successful.