Hi to all,
Im new to this and to be honest desperate for advice before i brave my GP.
I had my 2nd baby 18 months ago, he was born vaginally (against advice of my doctors) with the help of vontuse and eventually forceps.
My recovery was slow as i had to be cut from front to back, since having him nothing has really felt the same but i'm sure that's normal after childbirth. I have happily lived with the 'feeling different' but over the last few months have been having things happen that no 25 year old should deal with.
When i place a finger in my vagina i can feel a bulge against what i guess would be the back wall, when i need to open my bowels this can Triple in size and protrude out of my vagina. when i try to pass the stool i have allot of trouble and often have to 'help it along' myself. I have a constant heavy feeling down there and feel as though i need to check constantly.
When my husband and i have sex (not very often sue to pain and following issues) i am in agony, i also feel as though every time he moves inside me something is being pushed out of my bum, and, with every thrust, we're greeted with 'wind' i can't stop coming out.
As i said i am 25 and finding this a horrible thing to go through. luckily my husband is 100% wonderful and is totally understanding.
Any advice would be appreciated, thank you :0)