Ok so im 23 years old, Ive only ever had one sexual partner and were still together. Ive been checked loads of times for STD's as thats all the doctors seem to want to do for me. 9 times out of 10 when i have sex 24 hours later i get a stabbing pain right up inside me, it feels like a hundred needles stabbing up there, that bad. I have to cancel all my plans, ect..and life just stops, sometimes it lasts a day sometimes even weeks.
The first time i felt this was the day after i first had intercourse! The doctors dont seem to do anything to help me its so frustrating! ive had this 4 years now. My partners got used to sex once every few weeks its that bad, i would like a baby but iv have no chance of trying with this! My nan and mum both had endometriosis which sounds simular, does anyone have any idea what it could be? or anyone had a simular illness? Feel so on my own with this would love to hear from anyone. I know sex isnt that important to some people but my relationships under preasure from this and if i want a child i need help
(We use lube, this happens with all diffrent types of condoms and with no condom at all, i drink loads of water cranberry juice, aviod wearing tight clothes, go wash straight after sex and we always make sure my partners clean)
hmmmmm......Well laparoscopies can be very hard on the body because of the anesthesia that is involved in the process, maybe it is not so terrible not to have one. I was just explaining that was the way to be sure anyway. I do happen to know someone who felt worse afterward anyway. In my opinion you could go to jellebeans endometreosis thread and look at the sjb post you might be able to do some of the things in there and maybe feel better if you want to try it, of course this is not advise just an opinion.
The Following User Says Thank You to sjb For This Useful Post: hannah10 (11-25-2010)
It could be anything from an allergy to something in the lube to an allergy to latex condoms to endometriosis to an infection. If I were you, I would ask to be referred to a specialist. I would have some tests run including but not limited to:
I understand how it is to feel like this. Also, have you had an IUD inserted recently? An IUD insertion may cause excruciating pain in/on your cervix. I had an IUD inserted recently and the pain I experienced was some of the worst I have ever had in my life.
That said, I hope you are feeling better soon. I understand how this can severely affect your life. I do believe there is hope for your healing.
I would also suggest possible therapy for the stress that this is causing you.
May you be blessed.
The following user gives a hug of support to wwwgirl: hannah10 (11-28-2010)
i would suggest going to see a sex therapist or changing doctors. that is not normal i think. you need to see someone else , like another doctor or go for a full health screening at the GUM clinic and they will also check down there for any pains etc and if you tell them whats going on they should have a feel. i went for one before and they put fingers up there and told me to tell them if any pain. they should do same for you. your doctors seem rubbish, mine are too i am changing as they don't ever take me seriously and every thing i go about they always say ''at your age you'll be fine'' or ''it will be hormonal'' or the usual easy answer ''it's stress''...i'm 24 its not like i am still developing lol. anyway back to you.....call nhs dir or go on there website to fill in a call-back and they might be able to point u in the right direction, also research about it on the net.
Thanks, its really hard to explain the pain to people with it not being physical!! most of the time i think they must think im being a drama queen! but it really does stop your life Im gonna push harder to be refered again. Thanks for your time xx
The following user gives a hug of support to hannah10: wwwgirl (12-02-2010)