Re: pregnant wife
You have to trust the professionals around you, they have your wifes best interests. It might help you to know it will be a woman who does the exam and it won't harm the baby or your wife.
As your wife is pregnant, she is going to have alot of people who want to have a look, touch your wifes tummy, and eventually need to touch her private areas. Talk to your wife about it and how your feeling. I am sure she will reassure you. It may just be all the excitement and mixed feelings about the new baby. It can do alsorts of things to you. Its big, its great, but its scary!