So, this is really awkward, but the like, "lips" of my vagina... well, one is like larger than the other and kind of this greyish blue color. I reay don't think that is normal, but I could find anything online. It's really embaressing.
Hmm. I really don't want to say it's "abnormal", but I've never heard of such a thing.
Has it always been this way, or did this just happen recently?
What does your gyno say?
I know some asymmetry can be normal (one lip slightly longer than the other), but I've never heard of one being a different color.
Or do you mean they're both blue-grey?
If your entire labia is this color, it could be normal, depending on your ethnicity/skin tone. I know that dark-skinned women of middle-eastern and Indian descent sometimes have this dusky tone to their genitals, and possibly many other people do as well.
But if only one of your labia is blue-gray and the other is pink, that sounds like it could represent a problem and i think you ought to see a doctor about it.
In fact, you probably ought to see one anyway, just to put your mind at ease about what is "normal".
You can always look up some pictures on the internet as well; you'll see that there is a wide variation of "normal", when it comes to women's vulvas.