I don't have PCOS and I look 'abnormally' young.
There's nothing I can do to look my age. But at the same time, I do live my life according to my age. I don't think there's anything else you can do aside of that. Makeup doesn't help when you just look young. Some haircuts can make you look older- a lot of these newer layered big looks- but you need to know your hair type or else you may end up looking like a one of those really cute Disney actresses or looking like a emo- high schooler.
I think its something in our DNA/ genes and I don't think it's anything abnormal. It's just the cards we were dealt. I know there are women out there who may find us ridiculous for considering this an issue. But it's real. You want to look like you're in your 30s NOW, not when you're 50!
Good luck blue. At the end of the day, you are 32!! So when you start feeling anxious about your age, just remind yourself that you are 32 regardless of how you feel. No one can stop you from doing anything cause of how you look. And if people want to judge you because of how you look, that's their problem and its something you can't change. As long as you represent yourself the way you want to, try not to think about the physical.