I am really desperate for an answer on what is going on with me,on july 19
i had an l emergency hemorrhoidectomy performed,it has been the worst pain i ever felt in my life!!! recovery has been so slow,didnt bleed only for a week,bms very painful,but not as much anymore,my biggest concern right now is my vagina ,since the surgery i have had 3 yeast infections,wich have had been treated with terazol cream(i aplogize for my englis,came here to the USA, 5 yrs ago),i noticed after the surgery that my genitalia area were swollen,and very ssensitive,but tought it was normal due to the procedure.However 9 weeks have passed and the swollen is still there,(vagina)i feel a pressure down there,sometime itching,pain and burning sensation.the gyn says is nothing is wrong with me,but i can feel my vagina very swollen! i mean inside ,my life has turned out so bad,i cannot have intimacy with my husband wich is very frustrating,cause it seems like its turning us apart,even tough he says is not important,i can see he is lying and just trying not to strees me even more.
Has any womAN in this board ever had a hemorrhoidectomy and had female issues after it?i been reading posts on hemorrhoidectomy and no one seems to have had any kind of vaginal issues after the surgery.
when i have intimacy with my husband,(wich only has happened for three tmes since surgey )it is not painful during the intercourse,but i clearly feel very sensitive down there,and my orgasm are kind of painful,like my vagina muscles are more sensitive and i feel orgasms so different now,like pulsations that are very strong.and after that very red vagina,the next days the swollen stays and discomfort.I really would aprecciate any kind of advice,i am going to see another gyn doctor this next tuesday.
I am so scared of losing my marriage because of this,i have a terrible depresion,but i refused to take antidepresantas,PLEASE HELP ME!