Okay, my parents are flipping out because some girl told them that I was sleeping around. I'm nowhere near close with my parents, so I did not tell them that I was not a virgin. I'm not " sleeping around " but I'm not a virgin. I told them that I was. They set up a doctors appointment for me to go see if I really am or not. Can the doctors tell if I'm a virgin or not? and if I was to tell them that I didn't want my parents to know if I was or not, would they tell them that I didn't want them to know?